No one would say that they set out to get into a relationship with an insecure man. In fact, an insecure man can be especially tempting to you, particularly if your last relationship was with a narcissistic man who was all about himself and not so interested in you, or a predatory man who was happy to let you support him.
Viewed through the eyes of a woman who has been burned in a one of these relationships, an insecure man may seem sensitive and interested in you.
The popularity of Insecure and Awkward Black Girl before that are that they relate to young women (in particular, young black women) in a realistic way.Why are women over 40 so tough on themselves when it comes to our bodies??!!I told my girlfriend the story I am about to share here.They can relate to the relationship struggles, the challenges at work and the difficulty in fitting into a society where you are a double minority and must fight hard on all fronts. obesity rates of any group, highest birth out of wedlock rates, lowest marriage rates, fastest growing HIV/AIDS population, fastest growing prison population, lowest desirability rating in the dating market (along with Asian men).This is before you heap onto them all the baggage heaped upon them by the simple statistics facing them on a daily basis. This constant drumbeat of negative information is the leftover vestiges of generations of the past that young black women must deal with the minute they hit puberty.