Being around others energizes extroverts, while introverts need quiet (and sometimes solitude) to recharge.
One of the reasons extroverts seem to talk much is because we need to work things out verbally, while introverts ponder ideas in their head before they express an opinion.
That doesn't mean you have to dial down your enthusiasm for the world. As another person talks to us, our responses are already bubbling to the surface, practically bypassing our brains.
Rather, learn skills to successfully navigate the world around you, which is full of people who manage their energy differently than you. This frustrates others, especially introverts, and makes them feel silenced by us.
One woman turned an empty bedroom into a "man cave" for her introverted husband, who rewarded her by spending all his time there—and sometimes even sleeping there—leaving her alone and lonely.
If you get nervous or flustered, it's fine — she's adept at keeping the conversation flowing smoothly and will put you at ease.4.
And I’ve heard from multiple guys trying to woo introverted women, and wondering how much chasing was necessary, or intrusive.
An extrovert recently griped on this blog about how one-sided it is: one-sided, I still feel compassion for these out-in-the-cold extroverts and I do want to address some of the issues they raise. People who pay a lot of attention to cultural trends might feel like the “introvert-positive” movement is about a day away from jumping the shark, but in reality, many introverts are only just realizing that their introversion is okay.
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It's totally cool if you're more the quiet type who prefers to stay in the background.2. Her focus is outward on stimulating and exciting activities.