In fact, it feels like the male population is entirely fuckboys sometimes.But, as much as fuckboys are a nuisance to society, it’s pretty entertaining to deal with them, especially if you know off the bat exactly what their game is.So what is it about the friends with benefits dynamic that is more sustainable, and often more transparent, than an actual relationship? They’re like: How can you have sex with the same person, again and again, without falling in love?
If you’re like most people, you may even have wondered if it’s right for you and with good reason.
In most cases these days, adventurous people find sex buddies on casual dating sites like
Services like Mixxxer are useful because they don’t rely on luck, you don’t have to just happen to know or meet someone who you hope holds a mutual interest in casual sex.
And while I can’t imagine being with my Cuba date “for real”—I mean, he’s a low-key homeless anarchist who once took me on date to his Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous meeting; there are red flags—I still value our relationship immensely.
And he actually knows me better than a lot of my partners ever did.